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Meet Manny

Meet  Manny

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Manny Herrera

Manny offers Men's Life Coaching. He combines biblical wisdom, for those who choose it, with proven frameworks from DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy), RLT (Relational Life Therapy), and the leadership principles he learned in business - all to help men become grounded, connected, and confident leaders in their homes and lives.

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​Over time, Manny has helped men experience real, measurable shifts, less conflict, more peace at home, and a stronger sense of leadership in their marriage and family. His approach combines emotional intelligence, identity work, and practical tools that can be applied immediately. This isn’t about theory, it’s about transformation that shows up in everyday life, especially in the moments that matter most.

  • Training in Relational Life Therapy Coaching 

  • Training through the Professional Christian Coaching Institute (PCCI)

  • Approaching Coaching Certification through International Coaching Federation (ICF)

  • Serves as an Elder in his local church community

  • Training in Gottman Method 

  • Training in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)

  • 25 years of experience in Real Estate

Experience

Manny is a men’s coach dedicated to helping high-achieving men rebuild their relationships, develop emotional intelligence, and create lives they genuinely love. His work is focused on men who, on the outside, are doing well but at home feel disconnected, reactive, or stuck in patterns they don’t know how to break. He creates a space where you don’t have to perform or pretend. Instead, you get to be honest, challenged, and equipped to actually change.

 

His passion for this work comes from his own journey where he had to learn the hard way that change starts from within through redemption, discipline, and faith. Manny says, “For years, I battled the weight of addiction, unmanaged ADHD, unresolved trauma, and a victim mindset that left me feeling powerless and stuck. I found myself caught in cycles of blame, frustration, and emotional chaos that affected my relationships, my work, and my sense of purpose.”

 

Seeing how many men feel trapped in cycles of frustration, disconnection, and emotional shutdown, especially in their marriages, Manny mentors and coaches men who are ready to break free from the same patterns that once held him back- addiction, anger, disconnection, and emotional paralysis. Manny’s coaching is structured and results-driven. He doesn’t just offer insight, He walks men through a clear process that helps them identify their cycles, what’s not working, understand their emotional patterns, and take action that leads to real change. Together, you will focus on ending destructive cycles, improving communication, and creating deeper emotional and spiritual connection in your relationships.

What clients say about Manny:

 

"Manny does a great job of balancing direct feedback without judgement.  He is extremely relatable and helps provide real world examples you can apply to your life and family.  What an asset he is to any man’s life/ journey!" - Jason R.

 

"Manny met with me for months during a very difficult season of my life. He was able to help me with my overwhelm and offered me the patience, wisdom, and encouragement that men rarely receive. He helped with everything from fitness to being a present and intentional father. He even noticed I showed signs of ADHD so after referring me to a psychiatrist, I’m now diagnosed and treated which has greatly helped with the overwhelm of being a professional, a dad, husband, and full time student. Most importantly Manny’s approach is Christ-centered and he models the compassion of Jesus with whomever he is discipling or mentoring." - Travis S.

Testimonials

At his core, Manny believes men are designed for connection, leadership, and purpose. He challenges the idea that strength and emotional awareness are opposites. In his relational work, emotional mastery is strength. When a man learns to regulate himself, lead with clarity, and act with integrity, he becomes someone his family can trust, respect, and feel safe with. Whether it’s in marriage, business, or personal life, he believes every man has the power to rise from brokenness to strength, from shame to significance, and from passivity to purpose. We just haven’t been taught yet how to do that- He can help. 

Hands in the Soil

Manny believes real transformation happens when a man aligns his life with God’s design, learning to love well, take responsibility, and lead with humility and conviction. For those who request it, his coaching helps men reconnect not only emotionally, but spiritually, so they can build relationships that reflect the kind of life they were created for.

Faith-Based Values

Manny is passionate about caring for his body through consistent exercise regimens that include functional patterns, strength training, and cold plunging. This life long love for fitness began for him in high school when he was a regional and sectional wrestling champion. He then went on to gain a full ride university scholarship for his wresting career. He is currently training for a half marathon and loves shooting hoops on his free time. He also loves cooking, gardening, and learning about the stock market. He spends  significant quality time with his wife and kids because at the end of the day, that’s what this work is really about for him, helping men build marriages and families that are strong, connected, and worth everything they’re working for.

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